What Can The School Do For You?
Finishing School for Subs is a rare training in elegance, discipline, and the art of pleasing well. Alive, exacting, and memorable, it develops those who want to serve with style, intelligence, and genuine standards.
INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS ONLINE
Individual online sessions offer focused, private training tailored to your level, goals, and temperament, whether you need polish, confidence, structure, correction, or guidance in the finer arts of service and conduct. They are direct, personal, and shaped around real progress.
12 WEEK COURSE
The 12-week course is a fuller transformation: a structured journey through discipline, presentation, communication, mindset, etiquette, and lived submission. Week by week, standards rise, habits change, and a more capable, elegant and effective version of you begins to emerge.
the curriculum
FINISHING SCHOOL FOR SUBS — CURRICULUM
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PHASE ONE — KNOW YOURSELF
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Week 1 — Entering the Dynamic & Accountability
· What brings you here
· Distinguishing fantasy from reality
· Am I actually submissive?
· The 9 levels of submission
· Accountability to yourself
Week 2 — The Desire to Serve
· Exploring your need to submit
· Where it comes from
· Is this normal?
· Different styles of being a submissive
· Different styles of Domme
Week 3 — Feelings Around Submission
· Shame & guilt
· What lives beneath them
· Emotional support
· Being heard
Week 4 — How You Carry Yourself
· Speech
· Posture
· Presence & energetics
· Attention to the Lady
· Anticipating your Dominant’s needs
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PHASE TWO — PRESENT YOURSELF
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Week 5 — Presentation
· Profile photos
· Profile copy
· Improving your pitch
· Navigating digital fetish spaces
· How to write online
Week 6 — Attitude, Personality & Chivalry
· Who you are and how that reads
· Chivalry
· Terminology & vocabulary
· Articulating what you want
Week 7 — How to Find a Mistress
· How to look
· How to introduce yourself
· What to say
· What not to say
Week 8 — Reliability & The Long Game
· Not being pushy
· Consistency over intensity
· Attitude & personality over time
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PHASE THREE — LIVE IT
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Week 9 — Behaviour at a Munch
· What a munch is
· How to conduct yourself
· Spotting good & problematic behaviour
· How to meet people
Week 10 — Behaviour at a Party
· Accompanying a Mistress
· Protocol in a play space
· How to conduct yourself
· Observing & not assuming
Week 11 — Power Dynamics, Protocol, Collars & Risk
· Essentials of power dynamics
· Protocol with a Mistress
· What a collar means
· Chastity — as an expression of power exchange and surrender
· Implements, pain & risk
· Rope, canes, crops — knowing if your Mistress is competent
· Nothing is 100% risk-free — and that is your responsibility
Week 12 — Your World
· Consent & safe words
· Boundaries & how to express them
· Safety & red flags
· Subspace — what it is & how to recognise it
· Aftercare
· Talking to others about your submission
· Introducing it to a partner
· Offering submission in a way she will appreciate
Every unit comes with practical activities and prep.